Choose wisely!

Today felt like any other day. I woke up, made myself the-specifically-accurate-proportion-of-coffee-sugar-mix, logged into my laptop and got ready to type. But just as I was about to press the first letter, something unusual struck me: I remembered something. Now, that's rare for me—remembering something, especially a dream. Even more unusual was the fact that this dream involved my one constant friend, the person I turn to for everything from minor inconveniences to major dilemmas. The beauty of student life is that you don’t have to report to anyone at a fixed time. So, with that luxury in mind, I picked up my phone and called him. I narrated the dream, and soon, we were laughing hysterically. It was one of those laughs that stays with you, even after the conversation ends. 

As we both returned to our routines, I noticed something lingering—a smile on my face. It wasn't intentional or conscious, but it was there, a testament to the joy of having someone who doesn’t need daily updates but makes every conversation worthwhile. And so, I find myself here, writing about it. Blessed—that’s how I feel—to have a friend like him. Here’s to the great times. 🥂

There’s something profoundly beautiful about these moments of connection. They remind us that it’s not the frequency of our interactions that matters but the depth of our bonds. In a world where it feels like everyone is racing to keep up with notifications and updates, having someone who just gets it is a blessing. As I reflect more, I think about how these friendships evolve over time. When you're younger, proximity often defines relationships. You are friends with the people you see every day—classmates, neighbors, teammates. But as you grow, friendships become less about convenience and more about choice. You make an effort for the people who matter, even if life pulls you in different directions.

That’s what makes moments like today so special. It’s not about the hours spent together but the ability to pick up right where you left off, whether it’s been a week, a month, or even a year, or in my case-7 years! It’s the unspoken understanding, the shared history, and the effortless comfort that make these relationships irreplaceable.

Looking back, I’ve realized that these little joys—the unexpected laughter, the brief escape from daily chaos—are what truly keep me grounded. Life as a student can be unpredictable, sometimes even overwhelming. Deadlines, exams, and the constant push to figure out the next steps can take a toll. But these moments of connection remind me of what’s really important. They’re like tiny anchor points, keeping me from drifting too far into the stress of it all. So, here’s a note to anyone reading this: take a moment today to reach out to that friend who makes your world a little brighter. Share a laugh, reminisce about old memories, or simply let them know they’re appreciated. It doesn’t have to be a grand gesture. Sometimes, the smallest interactions leave the deepest impact.

And as for me, I think I’ll keep cherishing these spontaneous moments of joy. After all, it’s these snippets of connection that make life worth writing about. Remember, the friends you keep shape the life you live—choose wisely.